i have read a lot of the responses and the one that makes the most sence is from reine,i believe that she can see this subject from both sides.her mate is a very lucky person that she can be so open minded,i wish that i understood the compulsion that i have that makes me crave to wear female clothes,i know that they are just clothes but they are clothes that are designed for females,early on in my life there was a sexual feeling while wearing the clothes,i imagine there are a lot of us here on the forum that have went thru the same thing,but now when i get up and get dressed in the morning i would rather have a pretty pair of panties on,any more its mostly panties,i do have urges to wear a bra at times but but not that often.anyway thanks to reine for her insite on this subject.