As a bi-gendered individual I love both my female and my male qualities, but sometimes it's embarrassing to be a male.
Last weekend my wife and I went to a local casino that featured a very good band. I love to dance, especially to live music. I don't dance here, though, because the bar is not GLBT and men here tend to be a bit outgoing shall we say. I do have the pleasure of people watching, though, and watching the course, inept lurching of some of these guys is entertaining - as long as it stays at arms length.
While playing the penny slots and doing a little "chair dancing" I heard a repeated, "Hey baby, want to take my picture?" When I finally bit and turned around there stood a middle-age man holding an empty picture frame in front of his grinning face. He actually sat at home and put actual thought into this scheme. Then he actually thought it was a winning idea and actually brought an empty picture frame and followed through with this plan. I really do enjoy being a man, but I don't understand these clumsy attempts at connecting with women. Never have.
As many times as I have lamented my bi-gendered nature I have always appreciated the fact that it has given me a unique insight into relating to women. Not because it allows me to understand what it's like to be a woman (it doesn't), but because it gives me a bird's-eye view into what it should be to be a man.