Close to three years ago I went through a messy break up and shortly thereafter came out to my family as been transgender. I then sought out therapy which helped but did not lead to any definitive answers regarding my gender identity(therapist did not really help). I felt as though I was letting my family down. I felt ashamed that I experienced these feelings my entire life. I must be wrong right. I tried to put all of it behind me and move on with my life. I am now 28 years old in a stable relationship with a successful career. I feel empty. my partner accepts me for who I am but I feel as though I am lying to her every day. I don't even know where to begin with my current situation.