This is probably the hundredth thread on this topic for me. I hope this one will be different. I am fully out now to my SO she knows every deep secret that I possess. We went out last night i was mostly dressed with the exception of makeup and hair. My question is does anyone have any advice to come out as it were to local neighbors and friends? I have little interest in being associated with the kind of people that wouldn't be accepting but most of my neighbors are older. It may seem selfish but this is a very close community so my dressing will be public if it's not already. I suppose the question is do any of you here live in townhome or apartment situations that ultimately require a coming out for any level of public interaction and if you do how do you handle the neighbors?