Hey Kristyn and others as well,
according to my observations, there are two types of girls (or people generally) - ones who get it, and ones who dont. Had one GF, she did what she could, told me shes all rite with it etc. I felt she wasnt and I was right. She is ex now, the current one asks for my CD self and looks forward to see her
What im saying is that its up to her now, all U can do is be honest with her and your dressing, she is the one to accept it or not.