I just need to take a moment to breathe and soak it all in. I shared that I came out to my AA community in my city all last week. I have been to 4 meetings now as Suzanne. I also faced telling more friends back in KY. The word is spreading. Most reactions have been supportive.
However, my parents are not a resounding success story. My sister informed me my mom is not supportive. I thought she was at least accepting. That is not the case and she apparently never wants to see Suzanne. My dad is very confused by it and hung up on me in the middle of our only discussion since he found out. I have tried to keep it out of my mind but I keep obsessing over their reaction.
I am trying to focus on the good things that have happened. This afternoon we had about fifteen people over to celebrate one of our friends returning home. I was free to be me and everyone had come fully knowing who and what I am. That is success! I have also received so many calls and texts from people expressing their support. It has been overwhelming.
I guess I am trying to deal with the reality of this change. It's not all good just like eveything else in life. I would like to just coast for awhile. I doubt that will happen.
Suzanne