Yes I stopped wearing male underwear a few months ago now and I was wearing a mixture of male and female clothes for quite some time. I often bought and wore female jeans over the years. They do fit me better. I'd like to wear more female clothes but it's not always possible.
I'm lucky to work where there is a relaxed dress code and I don't work with the public. I wear girls low rise jeans or girls bermuda shorts and a T shirt. Also shave my body hair and have long fingernails so I don't even try to hide it. Everybody knows and I've never had a problem with any coworkers.
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I usually just laugh when someone notices my panties peek out of my jeans when im in man mode and tell them they should try it (if the person is male of course)
the women usually ask what kind they are if they notice. either way, androgyny works quite well if you don't act ashamed
I'm sure your co workers have noticed your attire. If one presents often the viewers gets use to it. I've seen many lesbians who present as masculine, and, except for noticing it really does not mean a thing. It's the same with gay men. You notice, but, that's it. Now, if you did not bathe, I'd have an issue with you!
If you're one of the best at your job, people will overlook a whole lot of things. Good, talented people are still hard to find, and will always be in demand; and if it's known that you do important work, and you're important to the company, no one will dare bother you.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
I can really appreciate this approach. I don't wear forms and I'm not trying to pass, but I really enjoy women's clothes. Instead of trying to pass I've done pretty much as you describe, a mix of male and female clothes without an obvious attempt to present as a female. This works very well for me.
I wear unpadded/unlined bras nearly every day. While it's been a challenge to find bras that fit and are comfortable, it has been possible and I'm thankful that I do have some that work well for me. My jeans and underwear are all from the women's section, as are many of my shirts.
This is a good balance for me and I'm happy to have found it.
I'm at the point of not having anything but female clothes that fit me. I've worn women's clothes including bras for so long that most people expect it. I don't wear shocking things, just what women are wearing in my world. I'm not sure they wouldn't notice more if I was bra less. It is how people expect to see you. If Ellen Degeneres wore a dress on stage it would be headline news. If you wear the same type clothes it becomes old news.
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