When I read members accounts about coming I've noticed a high percentage come out in their forties ! I'm really intrigued to know what happens at that age to make Cders want to come out ?
I'm hoping members may wish to explain what reasons they had to come out at that point in their lives.
I know in my forties I was desperate to understand the way I felt and why it wasn't going away. What tipped the balance for me was a TV drama titled ," A little bit of Lippy ". It was about a married CDer who was found out and went through all the usual routine we know so well, eventually he got through it with his marriage intact and the acceptance of family and friends.