Welp, done I saw the judge at 11 AM, we were done by 11:15, the judge signed the petition, handed the case file to me and told me to take it across the hall to the clerk. I paid my $45 court fee and got 5 certified copies of the decree ($20) and at 11:28 I was done with the court and legally my new name and gender. Since I was in the court house I took care of the things I had to do there, went to the county DMV and got my title and registration changed ($12) then upstairs to the Sheriffs office and got my CCW changed ($20). Next I drove across town town the State DMV and got my new drivers licence ($10) then the SSA office (free), next the bank (free) followed by my insurance company (also free) and was home by 4:45 with a Hazelnut latte for my wife.
Now, for all the other stuff, Verizon, Netflix, PayPAl/eBay, Red Box, etc, and what ever else pops up that I have not thought of