My wife dose not feel intimidated but feel (at first) like she had to make sure she was dressed more womenley?
Sometimes we have a laugh other times there is friction. But a lot of it is me because of my trouble self acceptance.
What I'm trying to say is she comes first and I never try to outdo her (that is not going to happen)
I always remember her feelings. That is very important and play it from ear from there.
But everyone is different.
Julie summers