For me, I am not vouching for anyone else but I want to look like a woman. I want to act like a woman and I want to be perceived as a woman. I want to pass so that I am also treated like a woman. I went to the movies the other day, when I gave my ticket stub to the guy at the entrance he casually looked away and held onto it for a really long time before he gave it back to me and told me which theater. At first I was a little miffed that kind of thing doesn't happen to me in male mode, I am very much an alpha. Then I realized he was treating me like he would any (hopefully) attractive woman and I was very flattered. When I dress to go out I want to be a woman so I dress and act like one.