The first time out in public i went to an outlet with about 50 different stores. It took an hour just to get my makeup on the best i could. put on a brown skirt and tan blouse and black flat shoes, the skirt was just the right size but it had a tie type of belt and it looked bad under my blouse, so off came the belt now i looked the best i could look even if i looked in the mirror and see a man 60 years old in womens clothes. Drove to the outlet and parked at one end of the parking lot. got out and started walking down the sidewalk looking in the store windows. Not to many people around to walk past. Every time i went past a person i felt they could see something wrong. I got the feeling that it was all in my mind. After i past a couple of people. I was heading back to my car and not feeling to bad about being out in public. When i was just about at my car it happened! ( don't wear a skirt with out a belt if it has loops for a belt no matter how well it fits or how bad it looks) I fixed the problem fast and got back to my car and out of that outlet and now back in the closet until i can feel better about about going out in public again. Not the best first time out in public! I just want to feel good being dressed in clothing that i like and look good in. Is that asking to much?