Originally Posted by
BillieAnneJean
I love the fabrics, the colors, the bling, the process of putting together an outfit. I love the change in my appearance as I progress through the transformation. I love being someone else for a few hours as I escape the male in charge, the default one who takes care of it male, the alpha role. I love having to deal with the limitations placed on me by the false nails. I love the feel of the false eyelashes. I love how the heels make me walk. I love the change in gravity with the forms (PALS) sticking to my chest. I really love the feel of the clean shaven legs with the thigh high stockings. I love the feel of a clean shaven body. I love the sensations of the temperatures, the A/C in the summer, that I can tell by the cold on my legs in the winter when the door has opened even though I can't see it, the breeze on my legs in the summer. I love how the outfits require some management, like a light weight fabric skirt in a breeze, a long skirt that is very full must be gathered up to sit. I love big heavy earrings that move and tug my earlobes as I walk, can't miss that they are there as they remind me of their presence. I love the restriction caused by a tightly laced corset. This is SO MUCH FUN.
I love taking a girl OUT for her first time. I love taking her out again and again and witnessing her confidence build up. I love how girls come to our Group meetings and at the IN meetings, after finding acceptance, all emotional, find a place where they can just be themselves. A sweetness comes out.
But I love being a guy too. I love being the man with my SO. She is the air I breathe. I love being able to do things that seem to be all but the exclusive domain of men. Like welding, scratching, using a cutting torch, tearing an engine apart and rebuilding it, working with motors over 500 horsepower, using a crane. I LOVE pushing that throttle to the instrument panel, rocketing down the runway, bounding up, up up in to the sky. Twisting that grip and feeling a hundred horsepower as it tries to lift the front wheel, succeeds as it pass 100mph on the entrance ramp. The feel as the boat gets her legs as the sail fills in the breeze.
But doing the guy stuff six days a week makes doing the CDer thing one day a week all the sweeter.
I love LIFE and I LOVE living in a country where I can experience all it has to offer.
But I feel sorry for guys who haven't tried CDing as there is a whole new world on the other side of that wall.
And I LOVE going OUT enfemme because it is like that pushing the throttle to the panel, twisting the throttle all the way, trimming the sails. It is, FOR ME, the proof of concept, the test to see what it will do. I know! It is the discovery of what is possible with what I just created! That's it! That's why going OUT, for me, is part of the process.
And I really appreciate this forum and the kind and supportive people that put up with my rambling.
I AM HAVING SO MUCH FUN WITH THIS!..........
......... that those who have to ask will never understand.