OK so this isn't a rant but need it explaining please !
I've been sleeping badly for some time, maybe toss and turn for a couple of hours but eventually get up and make a warm drink. I then find then if I put a nightie on under my PJs I usually sleep fairly well, obviously my wife isn't aware of this.
She has to work late twice a week so I go to bed in just a nightie and no PJs, I usually wake before she gets in at eleven and slip my PJs on top, last night I didn't hear her arrive home but heard her moving about downstairs but managed to cover up !
She commented with a wide smile how sound asleep I was, and how I hadn't noticed she was home almost as if she had seen me in the nightie !
I asked this morning why she commented on it, all she said was with the racket you made most of the night I knew you were flat out !
I then went on to explain that I was wearing a nightie under my PJs to help me sleep! She didn't get upset, but said that if helped me that's what you'll have to do but don't flaunt it.
She's left me in mid-air again ! I asked what do I do about it ? I got a non committal do whatever !
I assume that I carry on the way it is but the nightie can now reside under my pillow with my PJs, but if the situation arises again of me wearing it unaware she's home what will she do about it ? She knows I'm desperate to get my sleep pattern back !