I can feel where you are coming from. I have two major feelings when I dress. Sometimes I just want to be Jaylyn and dress and maybe help clean the house, just enjoying the clothing and being the lady. The second one that comes out sometimes is usually when I get dressed and am feeling very naughty. Look out because this "S__t" is looking for a naughty release. This side of me is not usually dressed for very long and usually involves playing on the computer.
I enjoy all three sides of me. Jay, Jaylyn, and the Wh___ Jaylyn. Now you know you are probably not alone in having different moods when dressed.