Lately, since the kids moved out, and I got huge into dressing again (took a decade off), I've been trying to figure out some sort of "dead [strike]man's[/strike] girl's switch". Like if I had my stuff in storage or something.. but the storage unit business is a nightmare, they even want emergency contacts!! I would just want them to get rid of it. There is a TG /CD transformation service and B&B in my area*, and they have storage, so I'm going to go that route, I think. But then my stuff can't always be in storage now can it?
*http://www.victoriasrainbow.tv/home.html
Edit: Forgot the painfully ironic part: BOTH kids moved back in!!!