I just read a thread in the clothing section about Wigs. Wigs have always been my bane about My CDing. Finding the perfect one is such a daunting task. My first wig I actually bought at Janet's, which I loved but no one else (that actually saw pictures of me in it) did. They said it didn't have bangs and that it just didn't look as good as a wig could.
So bad wig after bad wig later, I finally found one that everyone says I look very good in and very feminine in. It brought together my overall look and I really do love it. I am most certainly going to be buying a few more in the future as getting to this one wig took an awful long time. I swear I have thrown out about 10 wigs so far , not to mention the money spent on them.
This was the hardest part about My CDing to date, finding my look. I think I do fairly well in the clothing department and have made leaps and bounds in the makeup department though it's still not 100% which it may or may not ever be. I would say my second hardest (bane) would be breast forms but after what I went through with the wigs, I decided to take a break before torturing myself again.
Your personal Bane of your CDing may be different though, It may be one of the following (or even a combination of a bunch of them):
1. Your still in the closet but desperately need out
2. You have a DADT relationships
3. You have a totally unaccepting wife/SO
4. You just have no time to dress
5. You just can't get past all your fears
6. You can't get past the front door and out and about
7. You get past the door but can't seem to again
8. You just can't browse the women's section alone
9. You can't find the perfect heels or in your size
10. You want to shave but can't...
The list here can seriously go on and on and each one of us have different needs, wants, and the like and most certainly have different elements about this we may never get past.
So what is it that is the hardest part about CDing for you?