It has been over four years since i have been out with guys. I am a recluse mostly. I am not comfortable with people much anymore. My cats are my friends. Since i moved from the Seattle area, back to my home of origin, I have not really made any friends, and the 12 step group near here, disbanded. Being with a group of guys just does not appeal to me much anymore, like it did decades ago. i wish i could become social again, but being poor, and isolated does not help. Most people today, i would not want to be friends with. i have lots of acquaintances , but no friends. My brother mad fun of the soldier who helped Wicki Leaks, that revealed he was a woman in a man's body. I didn't say anything.