I am currently working on an article about Trans Gender people. Mostly M/F. This journey I have been on has touched me deeply and my writings helps me understand my own gender preference. Looking at nature and different cultures around the world it is clear that Trans Gender choice or let's just say men preferring to present themselves as female is maybe rare, but a very natural expression. Something which repeats itself as a pattern in nature we would not call abnormal. When cultures all over the planet are composed of males, females, gays, lesbians and everything in between on a consistent level, then it is no longer abnormal. Just because we in the western culture have come up with words like Gender Identity Disorder or Dysphoria then it doesn't change the fact that cultures outside of the west have long solved this problem. In fact, it isn't even a problem in those cultures. I also find it interesting that in the cultures where different gender representations are accepted, there is no talk about gender reassignment surgeries. In our culture there is. I wonder if we had a more natural and accepted place in society we would still go to such drastic changes of our selves. It is wishful thinking I know, and I understand completely why we are where we are. Gender is truly what we express, and our sex is what we are born with. I wonder if it will ever be accepted that we are who we are, not that we are not unique in ourselves, but that our gender choice is really not that special. Here is a quote that I really cherish:
One of our 'Wicasa Wakan.' or Medicine Men of today, John Lame Deer, says in his book, Lame Deer, Seeker of Visions:
’winkte' are men who dress like women, look like women and act like women. They do so by their own choice or in obedience to a dream. They are not like other men, but 'Wakan Tanka', the Great Spirit, made them 'winktes' and we accept them as such. To us a man is what nature, or his dreams, make him.