To make a long story short, after he used my computer it seems he forgot to delete some shortcut icons to the last documents opened. He did delete the actual files, so if you clicked on a shortcut it would not open - except for one. It was him in heels and lingerie.
He's three years younger than I, but he's already married and with kids (he got a head start). It makes me wonder if his wife knows or not - I thought perhaps the lingerie was his wife's, but those heels are obviously too big for her. And yes, I can tell from the background it's their home. Maybe he hides it well...
Having grown up and shared a lot with him, I think it could be a wonderful adulthood bonding experience as we've kept our distance more or less since our teenage years. I have a wonderful relationship with his familly and might I add, is not traditional (for example, he has taught his children to reason out the truth about Santa Claus, his 6 year old son already has an idea of what homosexuality is, etc.). I would, however, just keep it between him and I. We could have sister moments.
Should I speak up or keep quiet about it? Or should I hint at it? Once, I saw his left eyelashes were curled up. I think he might have forgotten to flatten them back to their normal state (and it's very noticable because for some odd reason, it's men in my family that get he long eyelashes). Somtimes I wonder if suspicion can go both ways.
Has anybody had any similar experiences?
Input is greatly appreciated.