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    Question What kind of man are you?

    Have you ever been around a group of guys and the discussion turns to attractive woman? Inevitably that conversation will bring up an age old question; what kind of man are you, a breast man, an ass man, or a leg man. Meaning which one of those female physical attributes attracts you more than the others. However it might be more appropriate on this site to ask a different question. Are you a bra man, a panty man, or a hosiery/heel man? These objects alone can cause discussion threads on this site to have pages in the teens and can last for months. But is it any wonder why? Look how closely the garments cover their corresponding body part often taking on the shape of that body part. Such a close association between clothing and body part could blur the line that separates them in some men's minds. That natural male attraction toward parts of the female anatomy is getting channeled into affection for bras, panties, and hosiery/heels. I would not say the clothing replaces the anatomy it would just have to piggyback it in a way.

    So. What kind of man are you? And any thought on the association?



    Hosiery and heels are together because of the effect they have on the leg but they can be separated.

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    What an interesting thought, RD...

    For me there isn't any surprise that there would some connection between what I find attractive in a GG and what I try to emulate... so yes, I think there's a close association for me. Personally I've always been drawn to an attractive pair of legs and all the accessories that tend to go with them... so yes, heels, nylons... high-heeled boots... strappy sandals... Anyway - before I get totally distracted... - yes, I like those aspects of what GGs wear and those physical attributes too... of course, it helps if the entire package is well proportioned, and I think that's always a matter of personal preference too, of course...

    Possibly not for everyone, but we may also be back to that varying conundrum of what drives and motivates each of us...

    Nice to ponder on a quiet weekend though...

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    Actually I've always enjoyed the entire package. My personal preference for myself are the breasts. I enjoy my 42C-44C figure. I'm six foot even and 190 pounds, so I do not appear top heavy.

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    I'm with Steph.. the whole package, and the packaging is very important. But I'm going to date myself (not go on a date with myself.. different forum I'm sure), but to quote Father Guido Sarducci, "Imma butta man".
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    Its the people not the clothes.
    Thats what kind of "person" I am.

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    I'm the kind of man who wears a dress and who is married to a wonderful woman who meets all my needs. I appreciate beauty in many forms and appreciate different aspects about different people and things. This makes me a complete person and frees me from labels and prejudice.

    On a related note, counselor Mark Gungnor describes the male mind in terms of boxes and labels. The male mind is predominantly geared to sort information into different categories and to separate categories from each other. Thus, the male mind operates like a set of boxes, each designated to hold a certain discrete set of thoughts, ideas, actions, etc., and to label each box appropriately to keep those categories clearly defined. This type of sorting behavior can be seen in posts like this and others that try to define a particular set of behaviors or attitudes and fit them to a specific category of behaviors that are associated with cross-dressing.
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    The attraction for me is the whole package as the beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, when conducting the quick summing up my eyes go to the breast, then legs.

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    My wife and I both no I am a breast man. So little surprise when I showed her my forms. More important, I am more concerned about a woman's intellect. What good is all the looks when you can't have a decent conversation with them.

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    Panty man for moi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emi_ View Post
    I'm the kind of man who wears a dress and who is married to a wonderful woman who meets all my needs. I appreciate beauty in many forms and appreciate different aspects about different people and things. This makes me a complete person and frees me from labels and prejudice.
    Quote Originally Posted by Tracii G View Post
    Its the people not the clothes.
    Thats what kind of "person" I am.
    Obviosly there is more to a person woman and men alike than just their physical appearance. For a true human relationship to occur far more things have to happen for people to be right for one another. And physical attraction is lease among them. But when this question arises its not about relationships it is just about attraction and nothing more. It is about what catches the male eye to a woman he fines attractive. Since humans are still visual in nature and have yet to evolve telepathic or empathic abilities it is still going to be the outer beauty that one will first notice rather than any inner mental or emotional beauty. Which I agree are ultimately the more important aspects of a person. It is only human to be attracted first by physical beauty for both sexes.

    The whole package is important of course the question deals with which is prime among the three even if it wins by a sliver.
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    " I'm not much of a man, by the light of day..." Lol
    Sorry, I couldn't resist. Apologies to Tim Curry.
    But, seriously? It may be corny, but I look at the eyes...if I see what I am looking for the rest doesn't matter.
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    Hi RD, I like to savor in the whole package bur the breast soon draws my attention then the legs & heels.
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    Quote Originally Posted by samantha rogers View Post
    But, seriously? It may be corny, but I look at the eyes...if I see what I am looking for the rest doesn't matter.
    Me too. i just assumed nobody would get that.


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    I like wide hips. I don't know what that makes me. My favorite thing in femme attire? Breastforms!

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    I have had my own breast since my preteens and wore training bras when I was young.
    So, it is no wonder I have been someone interested with breasts and the foundations that encompass there realm.
    I suppose you can call it a male fetish, but since I have my own bust, it has been a necessity to relate on a similar scale.
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    I follow the sage words of Fernando Llamas: The breasts are for the baby, the LEGS are for the man!
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    breast man..... but like the old J Geils song goes..."first I look at the Purse" lol

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    Well, if asked about which part of their anatomy gets my attention first, probably the butt. And the bits that flow down from there. Quite like them to well proportioned, but really I've never had that drooling fascination most guys seem to have for big breasts. None of this really matters if she isn't intelligent enough to hold a decent conversation though.

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    Im not a man! except for one part lol
    I just want to be a pretty girl!

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    When I was young.......... I liked all female parts..........If they were on display I would happily take a look without prejudice.

    Now that I am a bit older and the hormones have died down, I like a womans brain the most. So what kind of man am I? I guess that makes me a mature one....

    I kinda miss being immature!!

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    I like all of the parts put together in a certain way. Short petite woman with cute butt, great legs, small breasts, and a sassy personality. Gee sounds exactly like the woman that I married.
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    In a woman I like the person as a whole. The looks are secondary.

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