Why is this important? Because my wife doesn't accept my crossdressing, although she does tolerate it.
Some background. My wife shops at this smaller regional grocery store. There's a GM there who works at the customer service desk there, who started coming in with some female presentation. He would sometimes wear nail polish, a girly bracelet or a girly beret.
My wife was talking about the store and said something about K. I ased her who K was, and she said, "Oh, you know him. He's the guy in customer service who is CD or TS or something." I was almost too shocked to say anything, because she was discussing CD so casually, like it was his hair or eye color. But not wanting to totally waste an opportunity, I told her that, "It's great that he is comfortable with himself to let the girl out, and it's great that the company supports him in doing that."
So maybe if she can accept K, she can eventually accept me.
BTW, I deliberately used the pronoun "he" instead of "she", because I didn't want to get my wife thinking about the gender identity conundrum.