I am new, here, but looking for insight. There are numerous topics dealing with the first time wearing the opposite gender's clothing. Along that line, but a little off, are my questions, which are probably more relevant to people who started an early age. (1) When did you first realize certain clothing, colors, toys, etc. went to gender and that non-gender actions or appearance would be frowned upon and cause disappointment? (2) Who would it disappoint? (3) Why did you continue, if you kept it hidden until later?
This is a step for me to be here--my first intentional, albeit anonymous to the extent that it is, outing, but I am curious to see the answers that ring familiar. Perhaps it's too deep of a question for a newbie, and I should limit my question to "pumps, sandals or mules." So, if you would rather answer "pumps, sandals or mules," go ahead. I'm curious about that too.