If I may, a minor adjustment.
Crossdressing drops an artificial barrier. We put our head into that 'other space'
The biggest sexual organ in the human body is the BRAIN.
If putting on girly things helps us access that part of ourselves that feels like that, then so be it. It is a technique, a tool. In the same way that meditation helps us reach a new place that we normally have a hard time reaching.
It is all US, honey. No need to feel judgmental about that.
- MM