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    The time is now

    I have finally reached my sweet spot. Today I go into work and at lunch I have the last coordination meeting with HR. After that, they tell my director's staff in an afternoon meeting and then I tell my team. Tomorrow and Thursday I have a free for all telling those that I want to tell (it is a 3000+ person company). When I go home on Thursday, the male presentation is done. Work is actually not going as well as I want from the actual work perspective. Just one of those times we all have. But that won't stop my smile!

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    Best of luck Sue. I hope things go well with your meetings.
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    Wishing you the best.

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    good luck SUE
    hope all goes well

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    Congrats Sue! You’re almost past this huge milestone!
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    Congrats Sue !
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    Well it will be a day to remember for sure. I remember mine well.....I was a wreck until I was doing it.
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    The best to you and to your future.

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    Congrats on this milestone. Remember your big girl panties on Friday! It gets real from here on out. Be strong, be confident, be you and everything will work out.

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    Wow, thats really cool. I bet youve been working toward this moment for years, and here it is, you did it! Congrats and good luck, Sue.

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    Your story and success are inspirational to us all Sue! Continued success and godspeed on your journey!
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    Sue;

    Congratulations on this huge milestone. Wishing you the very best going forward.

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    Good luck sue and congrads!!
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    Good luck hope it all goes well !

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    Best wishes, Sue. You sound ready.
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    Best wishes on one of the biggest changes you are going to face
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    Good luck Sue, it is a big step to take. I hope you come back on Friday to tell us how well it went and how few of your concerns actually materialised.
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    Thank you everyone! For a change, I am glad I have a lot of meetings today. It is keeping me distracted.

    Step one is down. I just met with HR to review how to go forward. I have to say that they have been fantastic. In a nutshell, from the very beginning they asked me how I wanted to do things. It had been ten years since the last person transitioned on the job (and this is a 3000+ person division). So they let me make the decisions and in the end, all of that was in the final plan but one that I can certainly deal with, on how to communicate things out.

    I do have to watch it as I can feel emotions bubbling up strong. Can't cry in front of the guys yet.

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    You are a wise and strong woman. I wish you the best and pray for a smooth transition. From what I have observed in the past months you are very much on point and ready to move on with the next chapter in the book of Sue. My best wishes.

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    Good luck hope all go smoothly.

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    Congratulations! I am so envious. I hope all goes well !
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    Congrats Sue. Just be yourself. I think you work for a very progressive company, and that's a big help. (And yes, report back and tell us how it went.)

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    Ah I remember the day well. You have planned well and I wish you nothing but continued success. I am still amazed some days at how different and happy it makes me living my whole life as my true self.
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    Best wishes, Sue! We're all there with you in spirit.

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