So here's a loaded question. While many of us like me, dress to pass or blend in, how many of us feel sexy? And beyond that, what defines sexy? I googled the word and had to type in "definition" afterwards. I know everyone has their own definition, based on reality, fantasy, experience, gender, and even where you live. But here's a loose definition that I found.
"adjective
sexually attractive or exciting.
"sexy French underwear"
synonyms: sexually attractive, seductive, desirable, alluring, toothsome, sensual, sultry, slinky, provocative, tempting, tantalizing; nubile, voluptuous, luscious,lush, hot, beddable, foxy, cute;"
When I dress, I try to exude these qualities, sexually attractive, desirable, alluring, nubile, cute and so on. And really not in the Fredrick's of Hollywood kind of way. To me the everyday housewife who's wearing just a simple dress, underwear, (not lingerie) can be sexy to me. And it's not that I'm looking for intimacy while I'm dressed. Even though I would consider myself bisexual, I'm currently in a monogamous relationship with a GG, who's very supportive of my dressing, dressing and intimacy do not go hand in hand with me.
My girlfriend, like many is not attracted to women. But she's attracted to me. We've snuggled and kissed in my bed while I'm dressed. I told her that I would dress in a way that i would hope she would find sexy. It's kind of strange I guess, but when intimacy starts out for us while I'm dressed, it's almost like we are lesbians.
Here's two kinds of sexy for me. One was wearing a simple red and blue striped dress. Red bra, matching red panties. No slip, no hose, and some cute sandals. The other is of course the same dress with hose and a slip. And it can be pantyhose, thigh highs or tights.
I don't always feel this way. Some days I just feel downright unpretty. So what say you?