Do I dress sexy or to feel sexy.
Nope not at all.
I dress how I feel most comfortable, I would never blend in.
Preferred style is semi-formal dress, nice dresses and well dressed style,
That certainly would not fit in for that shopping trip at the grocery store.
but I dress for me, not the world.
I will leave the dressing sexy to the younger crowd.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
Nope. No sexy feelings. All I feel is normal. Though, sometimes I feel GOOD. Really good, as in, what a relief it is to be myself instead of playing the standard issue guy all day, for a while I get to feel like I'm the girl I'm supposed to be. Weird, but hey, that's been my life. I make the best of it.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
We say it a lot as guys but you don't seem to hear it so much from the gg's that someone who presents as being comfortable and confident in any clothing is sexy. So I feel very sexy because I feel confident, and because I think I have great legs!
I agree with Sarina.
I don't fully dress, however, in the home on pretty much a daily basis I'm wearing a skirt, some form of hosiery, heels and of course lingerie. When out in public, I'm in lingerie, woman's jeans and heels and what ever boring male shirt that goes with the pants and weather. Anyway, I feel very comfortable and confident. I feel good about myself and I think that projects sexiness.
Looking "sexy", or physically appealing, is very important to me and I try my best to be as sexy as my environment will allow without being comical or outright inappropriate. I love to get admiring looks and attention as I find these kind of things somewhat confirming that the changes in lifestyle I have made have not been in vain. I like to show as much skin and curves as I can, smell nice, and be well made up with makeup, nails, etc. as possible. I'm no Cindy Crawford, but I am comfortable with who I am.
I am too old to dress or even feel "sexy". Sometimes I dress like I'm going to a nice restaurant, sometimes I dress like I'm going to the park or the mall. Sometimes somewhere in between. Never "sexy" though.
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