Many give the (sensible) advice to see a (gender) therapist if you feel that gender issues are getting in the way of your daily life or you simply wish to sort out what this whole Cding thing is all about and where you need to go with it. The problem is, that while it is good advice, I, for one, can't do it.
Maybe it is my background, which relies on "fix it yourself," working class attitudes, my lack of willingness to take anti-(fill in the blank) drugs, fear of telling someone my deepest feelings (which by necessity must extend well past gender specific issues). Also, it seems that it would be an admittance that in fact I have a problem that I can't solve on my own. Which is no small thing!
My question is: Does anyone else feel this way, fearful of actually going to a therapist, even while logically believing it may help? Have those that have gone all feel that it helped? What experiences have people had?