After a long business trip, I was traveling home as “Richelle” and experienced the predictable delay at my first airport. So I went to airport bar/restaurant to get a bite to eat. When talking to the server, I mentioned that I did not mind the small delay as long as I make my connection. I told her that all I wanted to do after two weeks is to get home to my “husband”.
She asked where I was from and when I said Southern California, she got excited as she was planning on taking her first trip there in May. I of course then had to mention my favorite spot on earth, Sequoia National Park. I raved about the giant trees and that she could not fathom their size and age without going there. I even found some videos from National Geographic on my iPad to show her.
When she gave me the check, she said thanks for the tip and would definitely go there this May. She then gave me a hug to say thanks.
Now I have to wonder, if she would have given me that hug if I had been dressed as a male. Did she feel more comfortable with a stranger since she perceived me to be a woman?
Richelle