I had previously posted the question about telling my adult children about being TG. Well, I wrote a email this week to three of my five children, my daughters. I felt the time was right to finally open up to them after all these years. I also apologized for hiding this part of my personality from them, it caused me to be over tense and demanding of their dress and behavior, and they suffered from it. I thought I should wait about telling my sons. It went so well, they all three expressed love and acceptance of me, and it answered some of their unspoken questions about my behavior the last few years. (Like having my toes done in color with them, buying pink ladies sport shoes, and recently piercing my ears-not to subtle!) It has made us all the more close! One of my daughters even said next time I visit her in California we could go shopping together! I am so happy, being able to open your true self and receive back love and acceptance is so liberating! I know it does not always happen like this, sometimes it can cause rejection. But I am blessed with three amazing daughters that I love so much.
The next hurdle is to tell my sons. But men are different, much more closed emotionally and rigid about being a "man." Do others see it like this too? Is it easier to come out to a women; like mother, wife, daughter, girlfriend; and harder to come out to a man; like father, brother, son, etc? Or is it just me?