Sorry for such a long post, I just really need advice. thanks in advance.
Okay, So I don't even know where to begin except very briefly summarizing my past (I could probably write an entire book but ill keep it slim). Basically, My parents had an extremely tough divorce, especially tough for me and it all lead to me living in an apartment alone at the age of 19 with a lot of luck and help from friends and other family members. So, here I stand today 6 months later with a bank account that is slowly bleeding away and a job that is allowing me to just barely squeak by month after month. Despite all I've been through I still think I am a VERY blessed person However, this is where I am questioning myself, I can continue this road with no end or strong goals in sight or I have an escape option...
Recently, I have been speaking to my mother in Colorado (whom I have never had problems with, she was very strong during the divorce and only wanted whats best for me but I had other options that I pursued and thus, here I am today) On the phone with her I hinted at the idea of moving back with her and going to school full time to fulfill my goal of getting a degree and she was completely on board. However, I just cant make up my mind (and this is where I need your advice).
I am for the most part, content with the life I am living now. I can do what I want and I have all the freedom I could ask for but I am almost always broke only being able to afford the essentials and occasional splurge. If I were to move I would lose all of that especially cross dressing which I really really enjoy doing, I know most certainly this would be gone because my mom just wouldn't tolerate it she hasn't in the past when she caught me (it was very bad). Also, on top of that I feel like I would betray my landlord (who is a very close friend of mine almost family) because I would basically be packing up and leaving I feel like I would be abandoning his trust and throwing all the good he has done for me back in his face. I am worried about losing friends and cutting ties with family relationships I have where I currently live especially with my father. If I move there it would basically be a fresh start and while that sounds good it also sounds very scary. Of course, there are much more complications but these are more or less my main fears.
Any advice you can give me would be very helpful I need someone else's perspective on all of this for sure.
Thank alot,
Amy <3