So I am out with a couple of GG friend's today, completely drab, and they start talking about their plans for the weekend to celebrate one of their birthday's. The talk is to go to GiGi's or Stiletto's here in Michigan to see a drag show. The conversation kind of caught me off guard as both are married and these are gay bars and not their typical watering holes.
Now, I know quite a few girls here in Michigan go to these bars enfemme and maybe a group here also goes because I know at one point I had thought of going to one of these just for a night out enfemme if I could join up with a few sister's to do that. Now, I don't think I could if I even wanted to, or more so got the courage up to do so, because I could get outed at any time if a bunch of friends go there to see the show or to dance or whatever.
Amazingly, one of them said that I should come with them. I know they were half joking but were half serious too. They said it would be funny to see me there. My thoughts were yeah funny if Joanne showed up instead or if you walked in and I was already there without any plans of joining them on any given night.
I find this troubling because I always thought if I were to join some girls for a night out, without too much care about it, these would be the perfect places but now those thoughts are gone. So i have a few questions that maybe some can answer......
1. I know we go to these places just to be ourselves or to have a dressing adventure out without many hassles but why do GG's want to go to these places?
2. Has any one in Michigan ever been to either of these bars? what was your experience?
3. Did you ever run into anyone you know while there?
4. while they are TG friendly are they CD friendly? because some TG's do look down on us.
Thanks