I do very little dressing and when I do it's with her and always has been. Through our 20 yr relationship, she's been my sole mate. She's not really into dressing herself, though her interest has significantly increased over the years. The point I'm making is that she's not one to surprise me. Not because she doesn't want to, but because she's a busy lady and mother. Anyway, over the years she has occasionally done some (in her mind small) fun things for me, including made me a skirt.
Well today she was so excited telling me she brought me a gift. I know this could mean anything, and could be a drink from the store, or a project for her that requires my help ;-).
Anyway, the sound of her voice made me think this may be different and it was!
She saw a cute skirt (more modest school girl style), sweater, leggings and shoes. I couldn't believe my eyes and she ruined my day, because I've been unable to focus on anything else since seeing it.
Memo to those of you in relationships...
Crossdressing was never about me. I recognize the dangers and selfishness it can create and she has come first for two decades, and I have been ohhhh so careful and slow and now her desire to make her spouse happy is paying dividends for both of us. This wasn't about the clothes at all. It was about the love.