Hi all,
So as some may have read in my previous thread on this subject there was a lot of angst on my part to fly "en femme" in Canada due to the Transport Canada regulation regarding "gender" as a marker for flight denial (i.e., your gender must match your ID). I could not get a clear answer from Air Canada, Transport Canada, CSTSA or even my Member of Parliament so . . . I just decided to fly as Isha and let the chips fall where they may. I really hate to be told I can't do something especially if it has the potential to infringe on my rights, in this instance basic mobility rights. I left last Sunday for business and just returned last night and in both instances I flew as Isha . . . no real issues . . . okay one rude comment but no biggie.
So as to my adventure . . . oh and for those who believe unless you have pictures it never happened . . . I have provided a few photos at the end.
Got to the Ottawa airport last Sunday and it was packed (figured flying late Sunday it would be quiet) . . . no such luck . I was flying with a GG friend so I waited for her before checking through. Standing around provided plenty of time for close inspection by other but for the most part it was the same as in malls, some people never even noticed, others never batted an eye, some odd looks, a few giggles/guffaws from others. So my friend shows up and time for ID check one (check-in). The Air Canada agent looked at my boarding pass, then at my passport (slight curious stare), looked at me, gave a friendly smile and said "Gate 29 ladies and have a nice flight" . So off we went to security (CSTSA). I had never seen it so busy and it took us nearly 40 minutes to get through the line which brought me in close proximity to plenty of people. Again, some noticed, some didn't, some odd stares but we did carry on a conversation with those around us (complaining about the lines that is). Breezed through CSTSA (no follow-up pat down or anything). We had to run to our gate as it was boarding . . . ID check 2 . . . short of a curious stare and a slight smile there were no issues.
Now I was on the milk run flight which took me to Toronto (plane change) then Calgary, then Vancouver and finally a prop hopper flight to Victoria. Each time I had to show my ID and there were no issues. Funny thing in Toronto I experienced my first "bathroom line-up" at the ladies restroom. I was standing there in line and got pulled into a conversation about Air Canada's new policy on charging to reserve seats and paying for checked baggage. If they noticed I was a guy, they certainly kept it to themselves. We landed in Vancouver 12 hours later. This was one of the longest times I have worn make-up and while it was approaching critical fail thanks to laser facial hair removal it still did not look that bad . . . although I don't think I would want to go clubbing
I left yesterday from Victoria and decided that I would fly back as Isha . . . only this time I was flying solo as my GG friend was staying in Victoria for business purposes. She did drive me to the airport. It was busy at the Airport (again who would have thought 5AM would be busy). Waited in line to check in and had a conversation with the woman behind me . . . she liked my boots. Checked in with no issues . . . big line-up at CSTSA again. There were a lot of military guys in the line so I got a few rude stares and there were a few chuckles but nothing which really bothered me. Got through CSTSA and took my hopper prop flight to Vancouver. I had a two hour layover in Vancouver so I got to walk around the airport and naturally get a Starbucks. I found a place to sit and enjoy my coffee and read the paper. Now this where the only rude thing happened to me:
I was reading my paper when I noticed an older woman and man sitting across from me and both were staring (well more like glaring). I get that older folks may find this odd (different generation) and I normally cut them slack but it was getting a bit annoying after about 15 minutes because they kept glaring. So I lowered my paper and asked if I could help them with something. That is when the woman looked at me and said "You should be ashamed of yourself dressing up like a woman when so many fine young men are putting their lives on the line in uniform these days. You are behaving cowardly by pretending to be a woman rather than be a man and do your bit" (I assume she was referring to the recent events in Canada where the two soldiers were killed). Now this conversation was drawing some close by onlookers (I could see a few nods of approval from those who I guess, agreed with her). I don't normally engage but this was in my opinion too rude a comment to let go so I said . . .
. . . "Firstly ma'am, women are allowed to fight in combat in the military, have fought and have died in the service of this country. So no, dressing as a woman is not a cowardly thing to do. As far as doing my bit, I have given 32 years of service to Canada in the military, have experienced the worst humanity has to offer, have buried friends and shed much in defence of this nation so please don't assume you know me based on your narrow minded, out of date concept of what is right and wrong. You have your beliefs and I have mine so let's agree to be civil." That basically ended the conversation. The older couple got up and left quickly, everyone else went back to their business and I went back to my coffee and paper. Funny thing was, the couple was on the same flight as me and ended up sitting directly across from me on the flight . . . they never said a thing or even looked in my direction.
The flight home was uneventful and I picked up my bags and headed home once I got to Ottawa. So all my worries were a bit unfounded. I did speak to one of the Air Canada agents in Vancouver and she indicated that when it comes to TG persons they are told to compare the photo ID and if it can be determined you are who your document says you are (male in my case and me) then there is no issues. There might be a bit more scrutiny if you look very female (i.e., pass) and look nothing like your photo . . . something I don't have to worry about
So my proof of life photos:
First picture (jeans and jean jacket) is actually my return trip from Victoria airport (not very flattering . . . I hate phone pictures)
Last two pictures are at Vancouver international (critical make-up fail by this time )
Hugs all
Isha