Hi all, for those that know me I'm out and about en femme on some weekends and also tend to social functions that are not necessarily run by the gay community. I try to go to mainstream places as much as I can, I don't pass or blend and my outfits are "very out there"....Anyway to the point, I have friends on my ultra male side and good friends on my female side of life but I don't mix the two sides, I'm not out of the closet to my male world and it makes me mad that I have to keep the 2 lives separate.
For example if I throw a dinner party for my "male side", I couldn't invite over my good friend that has now decided to transition. I want so bad to be able to do that. You know to have everybody come together at a social function and if someone doesn't like it then they can get lost is what I would like do and say.
It busts me up that I have to keep my transitioning friends away from coming around at any given time. One day this world will change.