Hello everyone:
OK, I'm going to start a difficult conversation, and I'm not doing it in order to be a s*** disturber, but simply because I want to better understand myself.
For me, crossdressing is emotional as well as erotic. Like many other crossdressers, I enjoy dressing up fully, and I also enjoy looking at others' pictures, stories and fantasies on the internet about crossdressing. My question is: When is it unhealthy for crossdressers to get an erotic thrill from crossdressing? If we enjoy sexually or get a "thrill" from crossdressing fantasies, are we cutting ourselves off from real life? Now, some people would say that this is all fine provided that it does not become consuming. But, even if it is not consuming, is it a little unhealthy?
Rest assured, I am not asking this question in order to get into a "moral" discussion but just a conversation around "mental health". Also, this question may not apply to those of us who dress who have never gotten any kind of erotic thrill from dressing up.