Being retired and widowed, I probably have too much free time. There are a lot of things that need to be done but no pressure to get any of it done quickly, so I can and do dress quite often. While I'm dressed I don't get much accomplished in the house reorganization or garage cleaning; I'd get that skirt dirty, tear that top, snag my hose or chip a nail and we don't want any of that to happen. And since I am not out to my family who live nearby I jump at each car door I hear. So there are a variety of negatives that evidently aren't even close to balancing out the benefit I must get from the time spent crossdressed. And although I've accepted my crossdressing and realize it's not going away, I'm still not sure what those benefits are by the way.
Eventually I realize that I need to change and get out in the yard or garage or go to the store or do something else either important or required. So I begin to change, but it can take for ever. There are still outfit options I need to look at, different shoes or something becomes more important than what I've decided to attend to. I'm feeling trapped since I'm not out, but I'm also feeling trapped once I'm dressed because I don't want the experience to be finished. Who else has this kind of difficulty getting "her" to go away so you can get about your daily life? How do you overcome it, or do you?