As I've stated numerous times, my wife tolerates but doesn't accept. By that I mean I tell her when I'm going out (dressed) but all she wants to know is when I expect to return (so she can send out a search party if I'm late, I suppose). She doesn't know my girl name, hasn't seen any of my clothes and just about everything else that goes with a DADT relationship.
In case I should die unexpectedly, I'd like to make arrangements with a friend to remove all my girl stuff and donate, give it to friends, or whatever, so my wife doesn't have to deal with it.
Does anyone know how to go about this?