I wrote a few months ago about my BFF, and leaving a suicide note on Facebook. She resurfaced a few days later, apologized for putting me thru hell, and had a pretty stable couple of months.
She is under employed, and on the verge of losing her apartment. It is safe to say that transition has been devastating to her.
Today she sent me a PM that simply said 'Don't worry, a friend has taken me to hospital, I can't take this any more'. No mention of what hospital, if she has harmed herself, or any other detail. Of course, her phone rings, and rings.
I shall now jump in my car, and go find her. Again.
Here is the crux of my problem. I buy Em's groceries, fix her car, and 'lend' her rent money. I love her dearly, but I don't need a fifty three year old dependent. I'm well off enough that this hasn't been too much of a burden. I don't know how to break free from her, nor do I want to, but something has to give. I will forever 'support' her, but I've got to stop 'supporting' her.
Please, suggestions. I will always keep Em as my best friend, and I don't want to seem like a schmuck, but the gravy train has to stop somewhere.