no, not 'stache. I mean, does anyone else get anxious that they might just die one day, and the wife/family will come across your hidden wardrobe after you've gone? Worse yet, you are just really sick in hospital, and it's found, leaving you with some 'splaining to do? My wife knows, and she is DADT and we have been for a few tears, but the kids have no idea. But I have little other stashes of things I like to wear occasionally and underdress - some trouser socks, panties, or foundation garments, occasional bra. 1 or 2 places my wife doesn't know about. I worry that I'll drop dead and my co-workers, or family will find them. I'm not talking about a specific plan, because my wife knows where the main horde is, but I'm talking about do you worry? Am I being silly? MK