I guess I cheated on my reveal with my wife. I used Haloween as a chance to dress up and she loved it. I had dressed once before for a charity benifit. After testing the waters on Halloween I magically "found" my stash that I claimed was from the prior charity event. She was instantly accepting and had fun with me dressing up and insisted I try her stuff on. I know how lucky I am to have her in my life. If I had tried the reveal on any other day who knows what would have happened? I understand and feel for those that are keeping a secret from their SO because I have been there. The urge never went away. I would hate to see my marriage blow up in my face because I love wearing panties and skirts. Not only is my wife accepting, she is also encouraging. The reveal is scary because your life could change in an instant. I am lucky that mine changed for the better.