This past week my wife, who hates my cross dressing habit, even hit me with a cast iron frying pan once, but has been quiet to this point, left one of her friends in on our little secret, How do I know you ask? Well on Saturday, a guy who I know from town, came up to me and asked how I was doing since the wife left me over something she found on computer. Well to this point she is still living with me so I was able to brush it off as, "that's news to me, she was home this morning,". However I am sure that will be just the start of this kind of encounter, what do I do next, just run with the opportunity to let the cat out of bag, as he wasn't even the least bit shocked, or do I continue to say "nope didn't happen" seems like her leak just blew her chance of humiliating me too.