I went to my first PTA meeting last night. Part of coming out has been to make sure to attend all of my son's new school functions as myself. No Brent! Last nights meeting was about the anti bullying efforts at the school. I thought it was important to go as I am afraid my son could face bullying because of my TS status.
A fellow mother, who is also in AA with me, met me there. I was expecting a large crowd but other than the three member panel there were only 7 other mothers present. I listened to the presentation and then there was a question and answer period. I raised my hand and said I was afraid my son might face this because I was transgender. I also told the panel that the hand full of male friends he had told so far had been supportive and kind. Can you imagine sixth grade boys being like that? I also asked if they specifically addressed TG targets of bullying. Unfortunately they do not. However, I felt like I had done my part in raising awareness.
People were kind after the meeting. I am sure it was a topic of conversation for some but I did feel at least accepted as a caring parent. I am so proud of my son and him allowing me to show up as me! I hope I can give him back all he has given to me.
Suzanne