If money was no option....how far would you go....who would you help ??

[Stephanie Julianna]

This is a lot harder to answer than it seems at first. If money was not an issue I could fall into the trap of doing so much to enhance my look that it could screw up many of the important relationships in my life. My first thought was that I would set up a foundation to keep the Hospice I work at in the black. This would be after all my kids and grandchildren had their own trusts set up. I would make sure that my wife and I could do all the things that we want in a retirement. The trap is what would I do for "Stephanie"? If I did what "she' wants, I'd have no relationships of importance. My biggest concern is that I do feel that there is a certain amount of selfishness in what I do as my girl self. I need to feed it at times or I'll go crazy put I have to keep it in check. The lack of unlimited funds helps do that. If money was no object I fear I would be in big trouble.

[Rhian]

After sorting my family out I'd treat both boy me and girl me but I wouldn't be too wasteful. I'd have a big house with plenty of land so that I had the privacy to dress when I wanted, including a pool so I had somewhere to sunbath in my bikini during the summer (when we get one), to get those wonderful tan lines. I'd have a different car for girl me, which which would probably be a pink sports car. I'd get a wardrobe full of clothes and pay a mobile beautician to come and do my nails. make-up and wax me. That's about it really, most would go on my more dominant boy side.

Edit: I'd also buy a little bed and breakfast with between 10 and 20 rooms specifically for people with gender issues, where people and a partner or friend could stay in a safe environment and express themselves freely among similar people. All the staff would be either trans/CD/Gender Fluid etc so that people would in no way feel judged or self concious.

[countrygirl]

Get with a transformation specialist and get my look down where I can pass.

[Claire Cook]

Buy a pink mustang and Lolita sunglasses? Seriously, if $$ were no object I'd do whatever I could to reassure people that we are not the stereotypes that Hollywood has presented all too often, and to help them to understand and accept us. But there may not be enough $$$ around for that.

Maybe I'd just settle for a day at the Emerald Fantasy in the Emerald City .... (that's in Seattle, not in Oz...)

[Jean 103]

it would depend on how much money your talking about. First I would transition. I would look to help others .then sponsor a retreat by leasing a resort once or twice a year. I would not want the headache of actually running it

[ophelia]

I'd hire an image consultant and work out a good modern look for myself, and then I would go to top pros to get what needed to be done, done. I'd get an inescapably feminine cut and colour. I adore every aspect of the spa/salon experience so I would endulge and and would get some top line eyelash extensions, some botox for my face and some restilane for my lips. Maybe some weekend breast enhancement.

[wiwaw]

I would transition. Focus all my attention to it. I have been wanting it for years. If unlimited amounts of money were available then too many things could be done to help and support you all.

[Mia Brankovic]

Hey there Mikell, pleasure to see you again.

I too purchase lottery tickets; however, I have thought about what I would do with the proceeds (you see, I'm not a Lover of Money, nor do I serve that master...I'll never be rich, and (unless Art) I live a rather Spartan existence. However, if I did win: I would open a few business'/companies (profit sharing) to help reduce the youth unemployment...my focus would be upon the arts. Since I have waited for that lottery ticket long 'nough...I've decided to take matters into my own hands...I'm currently investigating the prospects of changing my career...I now what to become a Brass artisan (molding thin brass and mounting upon furniture, engraving & etching) and Leather Shoppe (I would like to learn how to construct horse equipment, cause I plan on owning a few...down the road a ways)...I was an accounting/bookkeeper, not in alignment with my personality or my path.

I can only give you my advice based upon how I live me life: For those things that bring you peace, happiness or enjoyment, while not negatively impacting others around you, spend as much as you can afford (important key point...remain within your budget) to obtain the very best there is. and ftLoG, if you have a SO, then discuss the issue! I have found that if the person you cohabitate with is HAPPY!!, then your life becomes easy & quiet. So, my first order of business would be to financially support the hopes, dreams & desires of my SO. I enjoy contemplative, yet abhor stagnation...is there a difference between those two.

Oh, as per what I would personally do with the cash...I'd increase my annual donation budget. If you're going to be remembered...it is best to be remembered for the right reasons (lol) I don't think I would use the cash to take the easy road...I have always takin' the road less travelled, the harder row to hoe, so to speak. I learn much more navigating thru the turmoil and it builds character...always explore and expand your personality...test yourself, within reason, and softly. Be gentle with yourself and accept yourself. "You are all children of the Universe...and you all have a right to be here". This is some of what I have learned while throwing myself into the fray...my way is richer than money (IMHO) WOW, well honey darlins...that was quite the lil' rant

I would return to my roots and move to County Kerry or Cork in Ireland...spread the wealth amongst my kin. They'll work for it...'cause I enjoy workin'...I hope to never retire...another reason to open my own company.

Oh my, I need a little music...care to listen in? You'll like these, trust me

Mirusia sings "Love Changes Everything"

Luigi Boccherini - Musica notturna delle strade di Madrid

Jon Anderson & Vangelis - I'll find my way home

Very interesting thought, Mikell Thank you,
Mia