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    I have noticed since I have been dressing and reading posts here that I look more closely at people, females and wonder if it's a crossdresser. It's a strange feeling. Dose anyone else have this feeling.

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    I reckon the Chancellor George Osborne. Definitely a girl.

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    I can't say I look any closer. If you are presenting as female I treat you as female. If you are presenting as male I treat you as male. If I find you someplace in between I will treat you as a person until I know for sure how you want to be treated. I hope that makes sense.

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    I always love watching females to see what they are wearing and get new ideas.
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    I noticed that the harder I looked to see if a woman was a CD, the more they looked at me...so to make us both comfortable...No I don't look, I don't guess, I don't care
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    I think I check some people a bit more, but even if I figured it out that they were a crossdresser, there is not much I would do about it, other than say hi, just like I would to any other human. I would not make anything out of it, unless the dressed up person was very open, then I would open up to them. I do not go out dressed, because for me this is something I do around the house for fun and excitement with my GF. So in the street, no one would know I dress (unless they notice that I shave my hands about 2 inches up past my wrists.

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    I don't look for crossdressers, but on a couple of occasions in the last few months I've noticed one whereas before I'm sure I would not have.

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    I look at women to see what their clothes look like and also their makeup. Of course if they are wearing heels I look Otherwise I don't really care if they are or are not a crossdresser.
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    No, I don't do a "once over" on a woman to see if she may be a CDer. Why should I care anyway? I accept everyone for who they are.
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    Yeah, I just take people on face value, as it were. I just never really thought seriously about trying to spot other crossdressers.

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    I only look when they appear androgynous. Even then, it's impolite to stare.
    Plus, I find androgyny attractive, so I'd probably be looking anyway

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    I completely agree, I do find myself looking more often since being here, and yes I notice ALL women in heels too. That said I haven't had a lot of opportunities and no 'reply stares ' per say but a genuine smile in response would go a long way I'm sure

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    I don't either, because the majority people do present as their birth-sex. Looking for CDers is like looking for a needle in the hay-stack.
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    For some reason I've had cds right in front of me and didn't notice until someone else pointed them out.I do,and always have,enjoy watching women,but lately I find myself studying how they walk and move.Of course I still appreciate their beauty too.

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    Lisa ,
    I tend to look at people closely it's just a habit after being a photographer for thirty years ! Now I do it because of painting portraits !

    Just the other day I saw a woman in a shortish skirt, good legs and long blond hair as I drove by she was older than expected and looked fairly masculine in the face ! If it was a CDer the short skirt gave it away !

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    I don't look for crossdressers but I do look at well put together women, the hair, the make-up, the clothes. And I do admire a nicely fitting dress or a skirt and a blouse. I do like white blouses that simetimes hit ant nice things underneath.

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    I agree with BLUE ORCHID I do the same thing myself

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jorja View Post
    I can't say I look any closer. If you are presenting as female I treat you as female. If you are presenting as male I treat you as male. If I find you someplace in between I will treat you as a person until I know for sure how you want to be treated. I hope that makes sense.
    Jorja, That make perfect sense. Wouldn't it be wonderful if everyone felt that same way?
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    I do look more closely at people, but it is more to get a sense of their style. I really pay attention to eyes and makeup. On a funny note, do you see girls that you know are GG that look more like crossdressers than crossdressers?

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    Since I've been on this forum (nearly a year) this question has come up several times - and after each time I go out looking.. seeking.. searching for those giveaways.. And with the exception of the one LGBT venue I've been to, I have still not seen one obvious crossdresser... I truly feel that I am missing something, but I should know all the cues, right?

    A female presentation but with: Broad shoulders, 5 o'clock shadow, masculine walk, poor posture, bad hair, questionable makeup... Funny thing is, I've seen all of those, but not a crossdresser in sight.. (let me say I've seen a much bigger majority of GGs that just look like stereotypical GGs too... )

    All that leads me to believe is that there really aren't many of us about out there - at least, not my part of the world - so I just spend my time looking at females in the same way I always have - with a sense of awe and admiration, and yes, particular attention to makeup, as that seems to be a dwindling craft amongst both genders nowadays...

    And Nikki - I'm pretty sure the Right hon. George Osborne is an alien and therefore not of any specific gender...

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    I take people as they are and don't intentionally look for other CD's although I do admire and envy women and their many The freedom they have for doing so, while as a man I'm limited and constricted to the blah~blah of expectations of masculinity. For me cross dressing is as much about being expressive of my inner persona as much as anything else, and it just so happens that a lot of that lends itself more toward the traditional feminine side than the masculine, although in the day-to-day world in which I must live and function? I have to do so within the confines of the Vanilla-only choice of masculinity rather than the multi-flavored, multi-colored etc of femininity.

    Years ago I was going with a woman whose teenage younger sister came bouncing through her grandmothers house wearing men's boxer shorts as "outerwear" when such was the fashion. Just poking fun at her I asked her why she was wearing men's boxers as "outerwear"

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    I don't know that I look any longer at anyone as in staring, but I do find myself looking at the telling features more than the manner of dress. For example the size proportions of hips to shoulders.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal Beth View Post
    On a funny note, do you see girls that you know are GG that look more like crossdressers than crossdressers?
    I know what you are saying. I have seen that a few times.

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    I do look for some of the signs, and have run across a few who were dressed and a couple of under dressers while out, seeing the outline of a sports bra under a tshirt and knowing it's one of us makes me feel a bit happy.

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