Hi all, haven't posted in a while since I've been working on getting sober. Now comes the part of being honest with myself and admitting that yes I am a woman. When my wife and I got together, I told her that I would crossdress on occasion and that sometimes I felt like I should have been born a woman. We decided to get married, but she told me at the beginning that transition would be a deal breaker. Since I was basically in denial about being transsexual I didn't think it would be that big of a deal, I could continue to act the part of the manly man that she liked. I don't want to continue to live a lie. I plan on going to see a therapist again and ask for help transitioning. I just don't know how to break the news to my wife or if I should wait until after seeing the therapist. Since we have joint finances it is not possible to hide the fact that I'm seeing a therapist, nor do i want to. If she asks why I dont know what to say. Any ways hearing how some of you have dealt with this would be helpful.
Thanks,