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    My ex wife found out and that is why she is an ex wife

    If I ever have another relatationship I would make it clear from the start I would rather it end at that point.




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    When I was married,, I told my wife shortly into the relationship.. she grew to realy like Karen,, very supportive. Now my new g/f likes to dress with me also. Both have commented on how i am a better lover when dressed, and both have been out in public with me. I have actually told 4 of my more serious relationship girls,, and 3 were kewl and supportive,, only one realy didnt want to know about it.. so I consider myself very fortunate.

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    Jenny,
    My wife knows and is fairly supportive. Many times we dress together and have fun with it. It's all you make it.
    Hugs
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    Time to repost this? Not mine. Leave a copy lying around for your wife to see...

    (Told my wife soon after we met and she was OK with my Cding. Still is and is supportive.)

    Advantages of a CD Husband

    1.YOU have a live in cosmetologist.

    2.If he wears a skirt it's easy access.

    3.He always envies you because he would rather be wearing what you are
    wearing.

    4.You can have a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend who doesn't mind
    waiting while you take your time shopping.

    5.You can double your wardrobe if he's the same size as you!

    6.You never have to worry about cheating on you with another woman. He
    IS the other woman!!

    7.You always have a girlfriend to go shopping and have lunch with!!

    8.He'll NEVER object to being a clothes dummy and wearing a dress while
    you hem it.

    9.While shopping, you can test a new shade of nail polish on him and he
    doesn't complain or asks to see a matching lipstick.

    10.He'll rarely have that scratchy five o'clock shadow.

    11.He'll never ask you to have a threesome with another woman as long as
    he can wear the lingerie.

    12.He will be sympathetic about your excess body hair.

    13.He won't tear your lingerie when removing it from you.

    14.He won't mind waiting on you or your girlfriends and he won't forget
    to curtsey.

    15.If you need a slip for that new dress you bought and he happens to
    have the perfect one, and lets you borrow it.

    16.You can switch off wearing the high heels while on a long shopping
    spree.

    17.A man in a dress makes a good cook.

    18.He loves to smell perfume and will give you an honest opinion.

    19.You can test a new shade of lipstick on him.

    20.If you purchase something for your home, it won't be too feminine.

    21.At least the toilet seat will be down.

    22.He is a lot easier to buy gifts for.

    23.He knows just the right way to make love, takes his time and knows
    just what makes you tick!

    24.He will understand much better that the best thing a girl can have
    when she feels down is new clothes.

    25.If he buy's you clothes, you know he sizes them right.

    26.You can take him to the hair salon with you and he will sit quietly
    while you both get your hair done and he will never complain. In fact he
    will thank you.

    27.The only time he will ever care if you wear curlers to bed is if he
    has to wear the oversized rollers.

    28.He understands why you don't care for spending 8 hours a day in
    pantyhose and high heels.

    29.Never complains about leaving delicate underwear out to dry.

    30.You have a girlfriend who doesn't get PMS.

    31.He will not only shop with you but pay the bill as well!

    32.He knows how to handle delicates when he does the laundry.

    33.Satin and velvet are more snuggly than denim and wool.

    34.He understands the need for quality cosmetics.

    35.You have even more excuses to go shopping, and he will even carry the
    bags.

    36.You can borrow his jewelry, clothes & makeup.

    37.He understands why you go through so many pairs of stockings.

    38.He no longer expect you to get ready for a night on the town in 15
    minutes or less.

    39.The world needs more feminists in lipstick.

    40.You can take the Cosmo quizzes together.

    41.You can ask him how an outfit looks, and get an intelligent response.

    42.His new friends don't spend all day watching football.

    43.He knows to walk slow when you're wearing heels.

    44.If he says "Hon, you look nice." you know he really means it.

    45.He can spot makeup smudges better than any other guy.

    46.He's like having a live in cosmetologist.

    47.He loves to go shopping with you and watch you try on clothes.

    48.He knows how to treat a lady with care, sensitivity and respect.

    49.He's a girl friend that will stick around and won't flake out on you
    or stab you in the back.

    50.He loves to dress up and have long chat sessions.

    51.You can have a threesome without adding another partner.

    52.If you've ever been bi-curious you can experiment a little.

    53.You know one of you will have a tissue with you when you need it.

    54.Dress him up in a French Maid's Uniform and you have a house cleaner
    for the day and he'll THANK you for it!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    Thats just brilliant, I can relate to most of those....

    As for dressing Tammy up in a French Maids Uniform.... I relish the day

    Tamara x
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    Missing my Libra babe Sherlyn, I hope she's rocking up there with the angels
    Missing our Rianna, doesn't seem right, gone to early, hope she's partying with Sherlyn

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    Smile wife

    Told her before we got too serious.Now married,will be together twenty-one years in may.

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    perfect list

    You are oh so very right Dina, I laughed with agreement all the way through your list. Some might say we are the perfect partners.



    Jayne

    Quote Originally Posted by Bernadina
    Time to repost this? Not mine. Leave a copy lying around for your wife to see...

    (Told my wife soon after we met and she was OK with my Cding. Still is and is supportive.)

    Advantages of a CD Husband

    1.YOU have a live in cosmetologist.

    2.If he wears a skirt it's easy access.

    3.He always envies you because he would rather be wearing what you are
    wearing.

    ......

    53.You know one of you will have a tissue with you when you need it.

    54.Dress him up in a French Maid's Uniform and you have a house cleaner
    for the day and he'll THANK you for it!
    England does have Roses

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bernadina
    Time to repost this? Not mine. Leave a copy lying around for your wife to see...

    (Told my wife soon after we met and she was OK with my Cding. Still is and is supportive.)

    Advantages of a CD Husband....
    Fantastic Dina,
    I might use the list sometime.....
    Fiona
    xx

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    Married,wife accepts it to a point.Dont go out in public with her for fear she might run across someone she knows.At least she lets me dress at home, my first wife sure didnt.I wonder, does that mean my home is one big closet???hahaha
    Kally

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    Hi! My wife knew before we were married over 27 years ago. Although,i was interested in our world for all those years i did not actually start dressing again until 7 years ago. She knows again,does not like or accept,but just ignores it,which is not my favorite thing of course, but i can live with it in an otherwise good strong marriage. P.S. I am still looking for some shopping/dressing friends for 2005. I live near Philadelphia in South Jersey. Bye for now girls !!! Robin

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    Hi everyone: My wife knows and accepts, I often wear a skirt (etc.) around the house and she never bats an eye. Her take on life is 'everything is OK as long as it's not harming anyone'.

    Kaye_Martin

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    Ditto on Kaye Martin. My wife has known since before we were married and she has the same attitude, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone, what's the problem. She does, I think, miss the manly man thing, but she would never say that.

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    As with many others here, my wife both knows and approves. I stay dressed almost all the time around the house.
    luv,

    Lisa

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    I told my wife long before we married. She was the first person who knew, in fact. I felt like I had to be honest about something so much a part of me. I couldn't see years of "hiding it" from her. She has become much more supportive of my dressing up over the years and when we're alone, I often wear some femme things at home. It's fun to dress up in hotel rooms too while we're on trips, but that's another thread i guess. Olivia

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    Not nice, but... oops *giggle*

    Quote Originally Posted by ReneCT
    Came out to wife about two months ago. Our relationship wasn't very strong then and we were heading for a seperation/divorce having nothing to do with the CD. After telling her, she wanted sex all the time and she said she wanted to work things out. My best GF suggested that my wife was trying to screw Rene out of me. Together we saw a sex therapist and TG specialist. She confirmed to my wife that Rene was here to stay. The relationship has taken a turn for the worse. The most hurtful thing to me is what she says about my TG friends-both online and those I personally see.

    Rene,

    If you want to be harsh, you could always tell her that she increased your Desire to dress! ;-)

    Megan Renee

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    Wife Knows

    Hi all! I told my wife about two weeks ago... I was really really drunk when I did, but that didn't have much affect on the results. My wife was a little upset, but happy that I was not hiding anything from her anymore. Right now she's playing video games and we had a wonderful girls afternoon out... Ok, so I wasn't dressed, but Megan was definately there with us as we picked out a facial and some new makeup.

    She told me that she really likes the fact that I am nicer now that I'm not repressing myself anymore.

    Megan Renee
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    Knows about it, sometimes lets me buy things for myself, other times I get to keep things she buys but decides to return. But has told me she does not like it, just tolerates it. Married 16 years told her before we got married. To be honest, I've gotten more into CDing the last couple of years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    I have noticed a lot of postings are done by people who are apparently married and whose wife either doesn't know or doesn't approve. Like the other thread asking how many of our members are gay or straight, I was wondering how many of our members are married and whose wife either:
    a) knows and approves;
    b) knows but doesn't approve; or
    c) doesn't know

    about their crossdressing.
    Im married and my wife does not know despite many attempts ive never been able to go through with telling her.

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    I'm married, wife knows,found out 4 years ago when she opened up a package for me and saw all female clothes in my size. Called me a pervert, ask if I was gay or did I want to be a girl, so as you can see she doesn't approve

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    Married wife knows from second date. Was surprised their was a third date

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    Well i'm not quite married yet, we've been engaged for 2 1/2 years, but she has known for most of that time, it was only recently that she has let me be more open around her with it though, Like sleeping in nighties etc.
    She doesn't like it but is starting to accept that i'll do it anyway, so she goes with the flow, and is now starting to buy clothes for me, She is even letting me wear my "girly" clothes around the house.
    i am what I am, I do what I do..
    i do not seek approval from others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sissySharon
    My wife knows and insists that I stay dressed most of the time. When she discovered thatI love to dress and that I am bi she decided to use it to her advantage. The only time I am allowed to wear men's clothes is at work and then I must wear lingerie underneath. But I really love it.
    Sharon,

    Looks like we have someone new here. Looking forward to hearing more from you. Welcome!
    Fulltime girl on the inside.
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    [SIZE=4]Holly[/SIZE]

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    Hi Sharon and welcome to the forum. You sound as happy as a little schoolgirl! Go with the feeling, babe!

    You'll have fun here...well...maybe not as MUCH fun as you are already having...but FUN just the same!


    Hugs & Kisses,
    Christine Renee

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    told her 2 weeks ago, the best thing i ever did. she doesnt fully understand fully but is trying. 2 days after i told her she commented on how hard it must of been for me to hide it for so long (10 years from her). she's coming along. who knows what the future will bring

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    Hi Girls,
    My wife has known ever since she caught me wearing her panties, girdle and nylons some 37 years ago. It's one of the best things thats ever happened to me.

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