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    is your closet still hidden?

    For the ones that SO already knows.
    Do you keep all of your woman things hidden still or do you keep them in the open?

    Also where all have you hidden them in the past?

    I keep all of mine out of sight even though my wife knows (she knows but hates it) and my hiding places have been everywhere. In the cabinet above the freezer, under our bed, in my car, under Christmas stuff in the basement, and many others.

    I ask because I hate hiding it, it makes me feel like I'm being sketchy and I don't see anything wrong with being feminine. Even if it is to the max.

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    All my stuff is as out in the open as it can be. My cosmetics on one side of the vanity..her's on the other. Clothes hanging and in drawers just like any other clothes would be. I can see your point; sketchy is seldom good

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    My wife knows I have "some" women's clothing. I really do not try to "hide" any of it. She knows there is a box of lingerie in my nightstand. That box has my original purchases which are mostly full slips. I keep the remainder "hidden in plain sight." I have about sixteen Zerox boxes of dresses, shoes, lingerie, etc in our converted garage. It was suppose to be a recreation room, but, it primarily storage. I wish I could hang my 115 dresses in the closet, slips and panties in a draw, etc, but, there's just too much. Since my wife is not accepting of cross dressing I've never told her of my purchases. If I were to drop dead tomorrow, my wardrobe will be an eye opener for her.

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    @ Arial- How did you get to that point of understanding? Had your SO always been on ok with your dressing? Or did it take time and convincing?

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    I have almost all my clothes and shoes in my small bedroom closet along with my some man stuff. The closet is almost 5' wide I guess. The rest of our clothes are in a spare bedroom we converted to a walk in.

    Make-up is in a large Armoire along with hers. She has her shelf I have mine.

    Jewelry. We share a jewelry box. Tights and the like are shared in the tights box.

    Bras and other shape wear et al are in my dresser mixed with all the male stuff.
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    @2B Natasha- same question, how did you reach that level of understanding?

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    Well. I am one of those that told my then future girlfriend later to be wife. Within 10 minutes of meeting her. I knew this was not going away and I didn't want to waste her time or mine because I wasn't going to hide it. No let me also say this. I was 38. Divorced and had made piece with myself and wa happy being by myself.
    Last edited by Lorileah; 12-11-2014 at 10:57 AM. Reason: no need to quote post above yours
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    Yeah I did not have the confidence I do now about being Ashley, I met my wife 10 years ago(we where both 14) and have been dating for 9 years. Married for almost 2. I admitted to myself about needing to be Ashley about a year ago and told her soon after... I fair mess it has become.

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    Mine's in plain sight.

    I guess I should start hanging more of them in the closet. Sure would look neater
    DonnaT

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    Hi Ashley, M\All of my things are hanging in three closets and four bottom dresser drawers.
    Although it's DA/DT My wife knows about everything.
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    No hiding....about 2/3s of my closet is taken up by women's wear and a shoe hanger...my dressers are no more than 20% male stuff. It's all in the open, along with my wife's and makeup.
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    I really don't have much stuff. But it is still hidden in my room. In case any of the maintenance staff need to do any work, or neighbors drop by. That really does not happen much.

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    Well I keep everything hanging in closet there's no hiding it. My wife say for me to be free to anything I want to explore we shop together but my taste is much different then hers. I'm to fem for her. She enjoys taking the pictures of me dressed says she never wants to lose her because is brings the better person out in me.

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    Hidden on my side of the closet, although very easy to find if she wanted to. She knows, is OK with it, but hasn't seen me or any of my things.

    Funny, not purging and having these things readily available has been calming in and of itself, reducing my urge to dress. It is becoming more a "want to", not a "have to".

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    We share makeup and panties plus we share some clothes as well. All of our stuff is mixed together. She loves that I have been buying Mac and VS stuff.

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    The one wig I have is in plain sight, wardrobe is on a roll around clothing rack and covered up most of the time. Makeup is in a shoe box next to the shoes, etc. in a closet.

    Tights are shared between my wife and I, and some outfits.

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    For all of you hiding in the closet, be careful the GPS company is sending agents around to tag every hidden place they can locate and post it to Facebook.

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    I have to say, all my fem clothes are more neatly arranged than my wifes! All my dresses, tops, skirts etc are hung neatly and together and undies similarly tidy and arranged. My wife on the other hand...

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    Mixed in with guy stuff in our bedroom closet. Shirts and blouses together, skirts dresses and trousers together, except under things no mixing because it's all girl, I don't have any guy stuff any more.
    Last edited by Jackie7; 12-10-2014 at 08:24 PM.

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    My wife is aware of my stuff.
    My dresser has two drawers of masculine and two drawers of feminine shirts and undergarments. We share a closet. My side is about half masculine and half feminine. Off-season garments are in a large plastic bin. My makeup is in the makeup bag she gave me.

    It is wonderful to no longer worry about being discovered.

    Best wishes
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    Stacked in a rather large cardboard box, with undergarments hidden away. My stash isn't very large for now and most of it is also pretty outdated but not quite vintage. My parents are well aware of said box (unwanted dresses and outfits originally belonging to relatives and quite possibly my Mum) but don't connect it to me since I'm not home 5 days a week. As living with my parents is a cultural thing here, filial piety and all, I reckon I will have to keep much of this under wraps. Which I quite frankly dislike on my part. I own a few women's sweaters and jeans which don't form part of my femme wardrobe as I wear them out in male mode. (This is what happens when I'm too thin for men's jeans.)
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    Ashley,
    One day you will find a solution, it is the rite of passage.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    I'm just hoping it's going to be the solution I'm looking for.
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    My wife has known since we started dating. She would rather that I didn't have the obsession or whatever it is as I do. I've always had my things in the closets and dressers. I do have more lingerie than she does, but she has more clothes than I do. From time to time we do share some clothes, but we have different likes. We are also not the same size for the most part. We share laundry duties and wash what ever needs to be done. She is also usually with me when I buy things.

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    Nothing is so hidden google can't find it

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