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    Sleeping en femme

    Hey ladies!

    I had a curiosity today that I had to get out.

    I tried sleeping in panties the other night but just couldn't do fall asleep. I kept tossing and turning, trying to ignore the fact that I was wearing womens underwear. I just couldn't relax. I felt so exhilarated, even though the panties I was wearing weren't tight, but rather soft and relax fitting. I would love to sleep in panties and other kinds of feminine sleepwear.

    How do you girls get relaxed just enough to bring your pretty selves to sleep?

    this girl needs her beauty rest.
    Ladies & Gentlemen, HER. 💋🌸💗

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    The short answer is you get use to it. When all you have is panties and sleep every night in a nightgown it become normal. I mean I love the feel, but can still relax.

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    I sleep in a nightgown every night. The only exception would be if I were in a more public area, such as a youth hostel or perhaps a hotel where the restroom is down the hall. It feels quite awkward to sleep in anything else. I do not do any dressing in public though.

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    Tamma, I felt the same way when I first started sleeping in panties and nightgowns earlier this year. Just keep at it and you will find that while it still feels great, you will fall asleep with no problem. Also, I love now that is getting cold I can wear my pretty pink PJs.

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    I'd say the biggest factor for myself for sleeping en femme is the fact of age. I no longer have raging hormones coursing through my body and can relax and enjoy my sleeping.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Hi Tamma,

    You did one thing right that is to get something comfortable to sleep in.

    It took me awhile before I could fall asleep dressed en femme but it had a lot to do with privacy. Are you sure you're not just anxious that somebody may walk in on you?

    And yes, the exhilaration is going to make it difficult to fall asleep. And like the other ladies have mentioned, you'll get used to it if you do it enough. Just remember to do it regularly.

    Have fun in bed!

    Love,
    Sarah
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    Wouldn't dream of sleeping any other way, but just the nightgown. One of the biggest advantages of doing it this way is that nothing rides up.
    If you are concerned about a walk-in, you could always wear panties under your pajamas.
    ALWAYS plan for the worst, then you can be pleasantly surprised if something else happens!

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    I sleep in a night dress and panties every night.the only difference between summer and winter wear is the length of my nighties. Must be my old age but i have no problems sleeping. I do have a pair of mens PJ's for hospital visits.

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    Nice nylon nightgowns are the norm... the wife is in similar gown Miss Elaine or Shadowline are the best! Boxer shorts and tee shirt when other are around

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    Once you get used to them, panties are jus underwear. I've tried sleeping in panties, bra and forms, even bra, forms and padded panties. In the end though, I sleep in the nude.

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    Am I alone on this? I like to sleep in a 2 piece bikini, it feels awesome on me and is quite exciting!
    I will admit, I only do it on occasion though..

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    (warning, long)
    So for the past few years, I have been buying satin or nylon bodysuits from BodyAware.com (or XDress.com) and some of these are male enhanced with the elongated nylon shaft for my shaft (LOL).. anyways, I have been shaving my entire body for the past few years. But not a big deal since I was a bodybuilder years ago and still lift, bike & swim daily.. but even now, I awaken each night (multiple times) in a highly aroused state. Whether it is the soft satin on my smooth chest and nipples or the feeling of running my hands over my smooth body I am incredibly turned on and sometimes lie awake for hours awake and fantasizing and caressing myself...
    All I wear now are g strings or things from Bodyaware...My wife slowly got used to it. she understands my desire to wear something comfy. she also understands that the soft nylon and lace underwear movement is slowly moving to men as a new market.
    FWIW, I am seeing a few more men in my gym with shaved legs..so it does seem to becoming more mainstream. (now if I could just ears my yoga pants to the gym

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    I remember that first thrill, but that's about 40 years ago now and I've been sleeping in them my entire adult life. I like softer, loose-fitting ones for night time. Honey, I want to be buried in the darned things.

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    I didn't do it all that often, but never had trouble falling asleep. Since, for me, crossdressing was always a sexual experience, a dress-up session would end up with me achieving a state of sexual satisfaction, which is always a help in falling asleep. Occasionally I would just go to sleep while still wearing panties and a nicely filled bra, and maybe a filmy peignoir. I might occasionally wake up in the night and notice what I had on, and whenever that happened, it would be a sweet, sweet feeling, as it would be when I would wake up in the morning. That sexy thrill of waking up pretty would often lead to a repeat performance of what I had done right before sleepytime.

    Not sure if this helps--maybe your crossdressing experience is different from mine--but if the feeling of having the panties on is creating too much excitement, I think you know how to take care of that, dear.

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    Wear the panties all day and by the time you go to bed they'll be less of a distraction. It also helps to be totally exhausted.
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    Hi there Tamma, Not only do I sleep in panties but also a bra w/forms and pantyhose. I L O V E the feeling(s) I get when I wake in the morning and know that I have a bra on and pantyhose on my legs. I love feeling feminine and this gives me that "shot of wonderful".

    Keep doing what your doing, you'll get used to it and you'll LOVE it!!!!!!

    Molly
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    I've never been able to sleep "en femme", but it sounds so interesting that I'm gonna try tonight. I hope I can just relax and get some nice sweet dreams
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    "Life can only be understood in reverse, but must be lived forwards" - S. Kierkegard.

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    If you start wearing them during the day, then at night it no big thing.

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    I sleep most nights in panties and a spaghetti strap chemise, they are very soft and comfortable. Never had any problems

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    Love sleeping with forms and sports bra. Other nites I wear a night gown. And if you have never slept in silk sheets before, feels so good.
    Hugs,
    Bree
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    I sleep in a nightgown full length and panties every night. The 1st couple of nights it was difficult to get to sleep but after that no problem
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    By the time I'm ready for sleep there's no stopping me. I just slip on my nightie and off to dreamland I go.
    Since panties have been my one and only for the last 10 years it's not even a thought. Of course my bra and forms are needed to have my nightie sit properly. That took a little while to get used to but now since it's every night it's not even a thought anymore.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

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    I have had the same experience. If I want to wake up exhausted, all it takes is a nightie or panties.
    Live and let dress.

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    I remember the first time I tried to sleep in panties and a babydoll nightie. It was just after a I came out to my wife, and since she was away for the week, I gave it a try. Sleepless in Seattle! (Well, a few hours north of Seattle). Time has taken care of that...I still feel sexy and sensuous when I put on my bedtime panties and nightie, but most of the time I don't have that elevated hormone feeling...just a sweet feeling of girly bliss as I fall asleep, and the same feeling when I wake up. And I agree...Shadowline gowns are divine, as Miss Elaine...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sheila11 View Post
    I have had the same experience. If I want to wake up exhausted, all it takes is a nightie or panties.
    Me too. It's impossible. Great, but impossible!

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