From my readings of published research on gender Identity, it seems quite clear that transgendered women,(externally GM), share some features of brain anatomy with GGs. Also, there is abundant evidence of brain plasticity, that is, at least to some extent, the adult brain can learn new behaviors or use undamaged parts to take over functions lost when other parts of the brain are damaged. I find encouragement in both. Knowing that my brain very likely developed with some female attributes helps me put documented early childhood feelings and behaviors into a meaningful context and has helped me put aside those old feelings of guilt and shame. This helps me understand why as an adult l have so consistently identified with women and experienced intimacy in my mind as a woman.
I find the latter, the resiliency and plasticity of the brain encouraging as I increasingly seek to embrace and express femininity'in my life. Some behaviors are innate, but those that reflect male origins and socialization are, at least to some degree (I'm hoping) malleable.
I also suspect that as I accept myself and practice and just live as a woman, l may be reinforcing and effectively rewiring my mind to be more receptive to coming out, progressing and accepting the possibilities of life as a woman.
I dont for a moment think one can learn to be TS. I do think that once one accepts oneself as transgender it becomes easier to explore and embrace possibilities one once believed impossible.
Any thoughts?